{"id":1849,"date":"2013-11-30T23:37:19","date_gmt":"2013-12-01T03:37:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/?p=1849"},"modified":"2013-11-30T23:38:43","modified_gmt":"2013-12-01T03:38:43","slug":"how-to-terminate-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/how-to-terminate-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Terminate a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>By Larry Chiang&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>As a guy, I approve of breaking up via text. Isn&#8217;t technology awesome. No pain, no fuss<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Well, when you&#8217;re trying to break up a business relationship, use my &#8220;hack&#8221; where you write a letter and lick a stamp<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Here is the cautionary, cliche tale&#8230;<\/p>\n<table style=\"border:1px solid black;padding:8px;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr valign=\"bottom\">\n<td width=\"48\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pbs.twimg.com\/profile_images\/1145806339\/44594_10100280663430099_6830004_61349448_4744586_n_normal.jpg\" style=\"width:48px;height:48px;padding-right:8px;\"><\/td>\n<td><b>Nick Mendoza (<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/nickydoze\">@NickyDoze<\/a>)<\/b><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\">\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/nickydoze\/status\/19974391014105089\">12\/28\/10, 8:34 PM<\/a><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/@freecreditrepor\">@freecreditrepor<\/a> screwed me out of $14.95\/month on some bogus membership thing &amp; when i look it up my membership doesn&#8217;t exist<\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>Lets break down what not to do before I circle back to what you SHOULD do (write a letter)<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>-1- You should not call to cancel.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Calling will just get you results that are sub par and less than desirable with near zero efficacy.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>-2- Credit bureaus bank on you calling<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>They want you to call. They make more money when you call. It is impossible to cancel via a phoned in call.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>-3- Credit companies do not want efficient and efficiencies.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>They want inefficient. Because it is literally their business model.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>-4- Credit companies want you to not leverage FCRA.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>The FCRA says you must mail in paper disputes. I know you think they just throw away the mail that goes to their PO Box. But they do not because it is illegal. Each USPS envelope is viewed as sacrosanct.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>-5- Credit companies hate when you hit their Achilles heel (the PO Box!)<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Mail the Free Credit Report people a cancellation*. And mail your credit card company a credit dispute letter**.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>*It is in the book, &#8220;Ultimate Credit Handbook&#8221; by Gerri Detweiler.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>** See&nbsp;<span style=\"-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); \">the book, &#8220;Ultimate Credit Handbook&#8221; by Gerri Detweiler. It&#8217;s used on Amazon<\/span><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>ENGR145&#8217;s Anchor Concept: Lemonade and Gua Gua Guacamole&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It moves you to the right on the entrepreneur bell curve&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=eudADPfTWiE&amp;feature=youtube_gdata_player\"><embed width='425' height='344' allowfullscreen='true' allowscriptaccess='always' type='application\/x-shockwave-flash' src='https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/eudADPfTWiE&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1' \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=n5jB310egEI&amp;feature=youtube_gdata_player\"><embed width='425' height='344' allowfullscreen='true' allowscriptaccess='always' type='application\/x-shockwave-flash' src='https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/n5jB310egEI&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1' \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=BMyLcDaWazU&amp;feature=youtube_gdata_player\"><embed width='425' height='344' allowfullscreen='true' allowscriptaccess='always' type='application\/x-shockwave-flash' src='https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/BMyLcDaWazU&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1' \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>CEO of Duck9<\/div>\n<div>Stanford University Entrepreneur in Residence, Emeritus<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Duck9 = &#8220;Deep Underground Credit Knowledge&#8221; 9<\/div>\n<div>125 University Avenue\/ 100<\/div>\n<div>Palo Alto CA 94301<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/ass\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/ass\" >https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/ass<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div>650-566-9600<\/div>\n<div>650-566-9696 (direct)<\/div>\n<div>650-283-8008 (cell)<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>****************<\/div>\n<div>Editor of the BusinessWeek Channel &#8220;What They Don&#8217;t Teach at Business School&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/whattheydontteachyouatstanfordbusinessschool.com\/blog\"><a href=\"https:\/\/whattheydontteachyouatstanfordbusinessschool.com\/blog\" >https:\/\/whattheydontteachyouatstanfordbusinessschool.com\/blog<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div>CNN Video Channel: <a href=\"https:\/\/ireport.cnn.com\/people\/larrychiang\"><a href=\"https:\/\/ireport.cnn.com\/people\/larrychiang\" >https:\/\/ireport.cnn.com\/people\/larrychiang<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Read my last 10 tweets at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.Twitter.com\/LarryChiang\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.Twitter.com\/LarryChiang\" >https:\/\/www.Twitter.com\/LarryChiang<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Author, NY Times Bestseller<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/whattheydontteachyouatstanfordbusinessschool.com\/blog\/?s=Ny+times+bestseller\"><a href=\"https:\/\/whattheydontteachyouatstanfordbusinessschool.com\/blog\/?s=Ny+times+bestseller\" >https:\/\/whattheydontteachyouatstanfordbusinessschool.com\/blog\/?s=Ny+times+bestseller<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8220;What They Will NEVER Teach You at Stanford Business School&#8221; comes out 11-11-14<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/embed\/c0d4562ea2049\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/embed\/c0d4562ea2049\" >https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/embed\/c0d4562ea2049<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>52 Cards. Two Jokers. What They DO Teach You at Stanford Engineering<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=vDBY0GkI3-g&amp;feature=youtube_gdata_player\"><embed width='425' height='344' allowfullscreen='true' allowscriptaccess='always' type='application\/x-shockwave-flash' src='https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/vDBY0GkI3-g&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1' \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Emergency swings and cutting deals as an 9 year old<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=OFGY7v9C4G0&amp;feature=youtube_gdata_player\"><embed width='425' height='344' allowfullscreen='true' allowscriptaccess='always' type='application\/x-shockwave-flash' src='https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/OFGY7v9C4G0&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1' \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>##########<\/div>\n<div>Duck9 is part of UCMS Inc.<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ucms.com\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ucms.com\" >https:\/\/www.ucms.com<\/a><\/a><\/div>\n<div>630-705-5555<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Larry Chiang&nbsp; As a guy, I approve of breaking up via text. Isn&#8217;t technology awesome. No pain, no fuss Well, when you&#8217;re trying to break up a business relationship, use my &#8220;hack&#8221; where you write a letter and lick a stamp Here is the cautionary, cliche tale&#8230; Nick Mendoza (@NickyDoze) 12\/28\/10, 8:34 PM @freecreditrepor [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1849"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1849\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.duck9.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}