Sugared for a long time and struggling with vanilla dating need some advice
Seeking Advice
I sugared for a while and it changed my life in really positive ways (property, debt paid off, schooling paid for, extensive travel, etc) I’m currently early 30s and would like to settle down.
I’m struggling bc I want to marry well but I don’t want to marry a sd lol. My issue is bc I’ve put a sticker on my time, love, attention, affection in the past my default is to have a mercenary mindset with men which isn’t conducive to finding a husband imo.
I don’t need someone loaded, but I live in nyc, and would like someone who does well and can give me a comfortable life. I am very attractive and have a classy look, tall, thin, dress well, (if 1 am actually classy is a question for another day lol) I’m educated, and I have always attracted high quality men.
I’m not struggling with attracting them but idk how to gauge their generosity, like how do women do this???
You just wait for them to offer?? Or you wait for holidays or a birthday to see what they get you?? I hope I’m making sense. It’s easy to meet rich men but when they’re not giving me an allowance I can’t tell how generous they are.
I am REALLY struggling with not asking for allowances, random things paid for, I’m used to charging 1k for dinner so I find myself getting agitated when guys want to go on 4 hour dates all over the city and I’m going home with nothing to show for it. It feels like I’m wasting time. I understand my mind is twisted from this line of work lol.
My question simply put is how do I marry well without sugaring?
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